I think I have covered the story of Timothy Conigrave and John Caleo story from every angle having read the book, watched the film and read the play script (oh, so not very angle as I have not seen the play performed). All three took the title, ‘Holding the Man’ but this moving documentary, with a slightly different title, is worth watching for the additional voices of their friends who retell their story with such love and care.
The other works (play, book, film) show what a loving relationship the two men had from school onwards. The pain of their separation was also evident but less clear was the fact that they were part of a supportive group of friends who not only accepted them but did not think to question why the two of them were together. The unconditional nature of this friendship complemented the story of Tim and John’s love.
The virus that killed John was just one of the battles faced by the two men. They also fought homophobia and bigotry during their sixteen years together. At one time they were forbidden to see each other by parents anxious to ignore a sexuality they did not understand or like.
Film makers Nickolas Bird and Eleanor Sharpe have made a film that tells this story using old photographs and film footage. Tim Conigrave recorded his experiences for an AIDS education project and good use is made of it here.
‘Remembering the Man’ is in my hinterland. What’s in yours?
This 2008 film by Japanese director Kore-eda is a study of a family that is fractured by the loss of the favoured son. The effect on the other son and daughter as they live up to parental expectations. The film takes us through 24 hours of a visit by the other son and his family to the family home so that they can pay their respects at the grave of the dead son. The fact that his wife has a young boy from her previous marriage adds an extra dimension in terms of who has a place within the family.
The father and mother of the dead son have daily arguments and the daughter’s husband and children add energy to the household that would be missing otherwise, even if the mother does express relief when they have left for home. The step-son is a calmer prospect and observes everything with a reserve that earns him the nickname ‘the unsmiling prince’.
It is a hot summer day when they gather and the walk to the grave through the heat suggests this is a ritual that must be observed. The dead son is a presence in the film. The father, a retired doctor adjusting to a post work state, cannot see why anyone would have any profession outside medicine. His surviving son has work problems of his own but cannot seek advice from his father who he believes does not understand him.
Throughout the film, the characters navigate their way past the difficult and the unspoken. It is the strength of the film that we move towards the end without any of these problems solved.
Ryota (Abe Hiroshi, l), Yukari (Natsukawa Yui) und ihr Sohn Yukaris Atsushi (Tanaka Shohei) in einer Szene des Films «Still Walking» (undatierte Filmszene). Es ist ein schöner Sommertag, und die ganze Familie trifft sich, um des verstorbenen ältesten Sohnes der Familie zu gedenken. Die Kinder sind zwar schon lange aus dem Haus, dennoch ist dieser Tag auch nach 15 Jahren noch wichtig genug, um die ganze Familie zu versammeln. Sohn Ryota (Abe Hiroshi) hat Hemmungen, seinen Eltern zu verraten, dass er arbeitslos ist und zudem vor kurzem eine Witwe mit einem Sohn geheiratet hat. Foto: Kool Filmdistribution (zu dpa-Kinostarts vom 11.11.2010 – ACHTUNG: Verwendung nur für redaktionelle Zwecke im Zusammenhang mit der Berichterstattung über diesen Film und bei Urheber-Nennung !) +++(c) dpa – Bildfunk+++
Next in my exploration of the world of ‘Black Butler’ was the live action film version released in 2014. There are differences from the manga but the parallel world (part Victorian or Edwardian) is still here and the central characters of butler and his master are in place. Yet, the biggest surprise was that the master was not Ciel Phantomhive but Earl Kiyohara Genpu and, wait for it, he was a she!
The master served by the butler is a girl at the start of the film and, like the manga, she is involved in fighting the underworld but, once rescued from the hands of villains in the film’s opening scene, she appears as a boy. For the rest of the film s/he is the master served by the butler. Central to this film is the need to revenge the death of his/her parents and discover which forces are behind attempts to destroy him/her.
The action sequences are good showing the super human skill of the butler as he deals with all comers. The master- servant relationship also works well as the power play between the two provides hints that this story is not yet over. Hiro Mizushima plays Sebastian and Ayame Gouriki plays his master.
I haven’t reached the purist stage yet so the departure from the story line of the manga did not worry me.
I was reminded of this anime feature from Japan after watching ‘Your Name’. They may not be in the same league in terms of quality but the story is an interesting one. It is told in flashback. Taku sees a woman at the train station and remembers how she came into his life. We see the story unfold starting at the point where Rikako joined his High School, transferring from Tokyo.
She is bright but arrogant and finds it hard to fit in. Taku, along with his friend Yutaka, is fascinated by her but not sure how to take her. She seems content to use her new found friends when it suits her, borrowing money when she needs it and failing to pay it back, for instance, and she thinks nothing of phoning Taku to rescue her from an old boyfriend when her date turns sour but seems not to recognise that he has feelings for her.
The film was the work of younger Studio Ghibli animators and it is best seen as a work of emerging artists. It is an interesting work, nevertheless.
This excellent 2016 anime from Japan makes you think about identity and gender. The concept of a boy and a girl changing places is one that has been explored in other films but this one has an extra dimension of time and chronology to add to the mix. The high school boy from Tokyo and the girl of the same age from rural Japan swap places unwillingly and realise that this new life is bringing around changes in their personalities as well as their fortunes.
There is a lot of fun to be had from the gender swap concept but the film is less interested in gender difference and more interested in personality. This makes it a more perceptive film. Their friends notice the differences in their manners before they do. In agreeing to communicate with each other, they set up a very modern solution to the problem: mobile phones are used to record diary entries. When back in their own bodies, they can see what ‘they’ might have done the day before. This is best shown when the boy goes on a date his other self set up for him.
Then the swapping stops! To lose the central idea of the film about two thirds through is a brave choice as the story develops into one of a young man pursuing a young woman who knows him like nobody else. This task seems impossible when his research in news media tells him it would be a waste of time.
I watched the version with sub-titles so that I could hear the Japanese language, even though I don’t understand it. I could not cope with American voices taking over, acting like a cultural gravy over the whole affair.
Mokoto Shinkai directed the film. Ryunosuke Kamiki played the young man and Mone Kamishiraishi played the young woman.
‘Your Name’ is in my hinterland. What’s in yours?
This 2016 film from Thomas Vinterberg, while not his best work, is interesting. The cast includes actors well-known internationally from other Danish films in an exploration of the conflicts of communal living and personal desires.
Ulrich Thomsen and Trine Dyrholm play a married couple who inherit a large family house and decide to invite others to live there with them. The disparate group they put together form a sort of extended family in the best spirit of communal living. Their relationship fractures, though, when he has an affair with a student at the University where he lectures and, rather than keep it quiet, he confesses to his wife and they split… sort of, since neither moves out.
The spirit of inclusion engendered by the commune is now called upon to include his new partner and the communal members decide to invite her to live with them all. The effect on wife, husband and daughter may be obvious but the film shows the individuals dealing with the reality as it touches on their principles. Set in the 70s, the film is an interesting exploration of themes of peace and conflict.
Central to this film version of Andreas Steinhofel’s amazing novel is the theme of identity. Phil has a gap in his knowledge of himself since his mother, called Glass by everyone, refuses to reveal the name of his father. Phil and his twin Diane grow up in an unconventional way with a mother who is something of a free spirit in a large house that is remarkable because of its bohemian look. The rest of the town may look down on them because of their unorthodox lifestyle but they don’t care because they have each other.
I declare the following: I thought the book was amazing. I loved it when I first read it which was when it first appeared in English, translated from German. I also love the work of Andreas Steinhofel. I did not love this film but I liked it!
Phil is gay so when he meets Nicholas and is smitten he is thrilled to have his feelings returned. The relationship becomes a sexual one and Phil finds himself accepted by somebody outside his family which is just as well as this is the moment when conflict between Diane and Glass threatens their unit. Things are made worse by the fact that neither sister nor mother will tell him why they are in dispute.
Phil retreats into his relationship and appears to have found love. There is even room for Phil’s best and long term friend Kat and the three become friends. Glass may reject lovers after just a short while but Phil is different. So when the betrayal comes, of friend Kat and boyfriend Nicholas, the pain is acute. When the truth of the rift between Diane and Glass is revealed Phil questions his place in the family.
The film has reduced aspects of the book, how could it do otherwise and stay within a reasonable theatrical showing duration? Yet, for me, although the relationship between the two boys is well portrayed and the pain shown by Phil when he realises Kat has betrayed him is poignant, many of the other characters lose their fullness and come across as self- centred or immature, as in the case of Kat and Glass, or are not well developed at all, as in the case of Diane.
Louis Hofmann is brilliant as Phil. ‘Centre of My World’ enters my hinterland but mostly so it can sit alongside the book which remains a true artistic expression of young love.
Frisch verliebt: Phil (Louis Hofmann, li.) und Nicholas (Jannik Schümann, re.)